3 Tips How To Make Guy Want You & Love You - Make him fall in love with you... HD
How to get a man obsessed with you: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt145 Okay, let’s be clear about this… If you want to make a guy want YOU, you have to demonstrate high value. This is called “D.H.V.” in relationship terms. D.H.V. = Demonstrate High Value Let me explain… There’s a balancing act to getting a man to feel attraction. The more he thinks he’s got you all won over, the less interest he’s going to have. (To be fair, the same thing happens to you when you find a guy who’s a little too “into you.”) Do you feel balanced? It’s a natural reaction to avoid people that we think need us more than we need them. It comes from a part of you that wants to know that this man is STRONG. You need to know he’s capable of keeping you safe if the chips were down. Unfortunately, the culture in the world today seems to keep tilting towards having women believe that they don’t need men. Women DO need men… And men need women…! But we need each other for different things at different times. So let’s drop the “I can do it all” act so that a man can feel like he can fit into your life. No, don’t act weak. Act accommodating. But not TOO accommodating… You see what I mean? It’s a balancing act. Don’t be confused. I’ll straighten this thing out for you here, as we go through: How to make a guy want you – 3 tips… TIP 1 – Make him want you like nothing else: Love Your Life… This is probably one of the most overworked bits of advice you’ve heard, right? “Be happy in your own skin first…” “Love yourself, and he will appear!” “Live your own life first…” Blah blah blah… Don’t you just feel like slapping them when you hear it? Well, it’s true – but it does need some explaining… First of all, what many of these sayings mean is that you don’t want to set up shop in someone else’s life just because you’re not happy with your own life. If you do, you’ll just keep finding the same problems coming up over and over again. You have to start by getting rid of your own neurotic baggage first. Let it go. What many young couples don’t realize is that they are often trying to avoid themselves when they get into a relationship. We blame the other person rather than stop after a breakup and take an honest inventory of what our contribution to the problems was. Sure, we could blame everything on women being “needy,” but that’s not going to help you get the results you want. (It’s also a bit too pat a response.) Just get to work on the rough edges that you know come up in your relationships. It’s not really too hard when you sit down and make a quick list of the areas you know are an issue. Example list: – Tend to get jealous easily – Don’t like being criticized about my taste in movies – I’m late a lot… Not too bad for a starting point, and I’m sure we can all relate to those. So what you do is pick out the first one as being a real roadblock to your past relationships. You know you act up when you feel jealous. How do you get past your challenges?