Your Ex Boyfriend: If He Tries to Contact You Ignore His Emails, Phone Calls and Text Messages

http://breakingupsurvival.info ~ CLICK HERE NOW TO GET HIM BACK! A breakup can be very devastating and send you into the depth of depression. That is why you are so vulnerable to any interest shown by your ex boyfriend. If he sends you an email and asks how you are, you read it over and over again, and then answer it immediately. The biggest joy will be a phone call and you will nearly break your neck to answer it. All of these actions will be keeping you from getting your ex back. This might be hard to take, but he is playing you like a puppet on a string. If you think that by staying in touch with you means he is still interested, you are right, but he is not interested in the right way. When a guy initiates a breakup, he will usually want to be left alone and will nor contact his ex girlfriend in any way. If you try to contact him, he will stonewall you and refuse to communicate with you. This frustrates you and will nearly drives you crazy if you are still in love with him. You would give almost anything to be able to talk to him and tell you how much you need him in your life. That is what makes you so susceptible when an ex boyfriend stays in contact with you. The truth is, he is staying in contact with you because he wants you as a backup girlfriend and you cannot allow that to happen. Being his backup girlfriend will be a miserable life. You will be sitting at home night after night waiting for him to call. He will be out dating other girls and having fun, secure in the knowledge that if things do not work out, he will have you to fall back on. When he does call it will not to be asking for you to go out and have a good time with him. It will be to check and see if you are still waiting around for him. As long as you let him get away with this, you will never get your ex boyfriend back. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you will have to ignore his phone calls and erase his emails and text messages without answering them. Begin thinking of yourself and move on with your life. Go to a good salon and get a new hair style, manicure and a tan. Next go shopping for new clothes and shoes that will compliment your new look. Show him that you do not need him to have a good time. Get some girlfriends together and go out on the town. Be sure to stop by the places where your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at you. When he sees you, his eyes will pop out and he will understand why you are not answering his phone calls and emails. You are not sitting home waiting for him anymore and it will dawn on him that he might lose you. By ignoring him, you have ceased to be his backup girlfriend and if he will see that if he wants you it has to be full time girlfriend or nothing. Citation: H. L. Archer.