Is Your Ex The Right Person For You? (5 Ways To Know For Sure) HD
http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Is Your Ex The Right Person For You? Hi, it’s Brad Browning here again...relationship coach and author of The Ex Factor Guide, a program developed to help you get your ex back into your arms. I know I’ve been known as the “Ex Back Geek” -- and that’s something I’m really proud of. I pride myself for my ability to help men and women salvage their lost relationships. However, on some very rare occasions, sometimes getting back together with somebody that you miss just isn’t the right decision for you. Of course, when clients hire me, I teach them exactly how to win their ex back… and a lot of the time, they end up getting their ex back...only for the relationship to fail again 3 or 4 weeks later. Sometimes, two people just aren’t compatible at all...and both parties would be best suited to move on completely. Coming to that conclusion can be pretty tough...especially if you still love the person dearly. In this video, I’ll go through 5 tips to help you realize whether you should keep trying or just simply move on with your life. 1.) Do you REALLY love your ex? A lot of the time when someone important leaves you, you begin irrationally wanting them back into your life without looking at the facts. People want what they can’t have, right? If possible, take a step back from the whole situation and take a few breaths. Then ask yourself, “How much do I love my ex? Really?” If you don’t think that really love your ex, then it’s time to just move and find someone that you actually love. 2.) Can you picture a legitimate future with your ex? Sometimes lust can blind your foresight. Believe it or not, I’ve coached couples back together only to hear that one of them is planning to move 2000 miles away for work. You really have to consider the logistics with your ex… would it ever really work out in the future? And an even more telling… would you ever marry your ex? If not, then it’s probably best to cut your losses and find someone else. 3.) Frequency of arguments. Studies show that an occasional healthy argument between partners builds trust and love. However, when it gets to an excessive level, then obviously the relationship was just never meant to be. So think back when you and your ex were together...how often did you have arguments? What were they about? How intense were they? If you were having intense arguments on a daily basis, then how badly do you want that back in your life again? 4.) Ask Yourself Why You Want To Get Back Together With Your Ex… As absurd as it sounds, I asked one client why she wanted to get back together with her ex boyfriend. Usually, I would expect an answer along the lines of… “He makes me feel like no other guy can make me feel.” But instead, I got a rather strange and funny answer...she said, “I want him back because he’s good in bed.” I had a good laugh about that one. While sex is a vital part of a relationship, it should be the reason why you want to get back together
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