My Boyfriend is Sexting with Another Woman. Is He Cheating? Wrong or Right? Chat Steps. HD
Download our Workout & Meal Plan App!!! Slim Down In 4 Weeks. Who is in? iPhone: http://goo.gl/YJmezY Android: http://goo.gl/9PCTZA My partner is sexting someone else I have discovered my partner has been sexting with another woman: How should I handle the situation? At first I feel totally blown away by the discovery. I can’t imagine my partner as someone who would sext behind my back. I always thought this person was honest and trustworthy. Now I don’t know what to think any longer. You begin to question anything and everything. “Did I make a mistake?” “What is it that I missed?” and “Is there more that I still don’t know?” I feel like the ground I have been walking on has suddenly opened up under my feet and now I am suspended over an abyss and I don’t know how deep it is. I feel I can’t really talk to anyone about this, because I feel humiliated, embarrassed, and very uncomfortable. So I keep everything inside while I try to sort out my mixed feelings and come up with a plan. I feel angry. How could he do this? Did I deserve it?! I have always been honest and loyal. I had always stated the importance of being honest with one another, so how could this happen? Then I question our relationship: is there something that could explain his behavior? Perhaps we haven’t been very close lately. Perhaps I have been too focused on work… But then again, I wouldn’t do it no matter what, so why am I taking the blame? He did it, not me. So the anger comes back and burns me from the inside. Then I question our sexual life together. Was it too boring for him? Lately I hadn’t been romantic very much with him… Perhaps had I been more aware of his sexual needs… And then I go back to being furious and believing I am not deserving this. I know I could do one of these three things: • IGNORE IT I could ignore it, bury my head in a sand and pretend to be happy • confront him I could confront him. I could get mad at him for looking at other girls and thinking about other girls I could be furious and yell at him and end up pushing him farther away. • I could learn the sexual physiology of men, I could learn how to manipulate, how to inspire him. I could learn the sexual psychology of men, why men want what they want. (instead of sticking my head in sand like most women) And I could learn to play his secret desires like a violin… and inspire him to give me everything I’ve ever fantasized about. So I decided to make sense of it all. I fire up my laptop exited of what I am going to learn. But quickly I got frustrated …And then disgusted… All over the internet I find are books and articles and YouTube videos by sleazy pickup artist type guys and twenty-two years old bimbos telling me that I had to act like a slut or like a nymphomaniac teenager to make a man happy and I know that could not be the truth I decided to discuss this situation with him and try to understand why he cheated on me. No matter how difficult, uncomfortable, awkward and challenging that conve
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