Dating Men Over 40 - 5 Tips | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo HD

Get him to commit - go here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt172 Dating Men Over 40 – 5 Tips You MUST Know… If you’ve been around long enough, you know that things change when you get a little older. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. Dating isn’t just a giggly trip to the movies like it was in your teens and twenties… Now you have to deal with mature dating – and know how to handle things as a grown-up. Yeah, I know – bummer. But things are better later on. You’re wiser, more confident, and you don’t have time to waste on game-playing with those “players” out there. And if you have to date a guy over 40, you should know how to handle yourself – and not get surprised in the process. So I’m going to cover 5 special tips for you if you’re dating a “silver fox” – that’s a more affectionate way of describing those guys that are a little more gray. First – the benefits: Older guys are better in bed. Usually, anyway. And that’s good for both of you! Older guys are more established in their career, and they have more time for you… Older guys have more interests and hobbies to include you in. It’s not just about playing beer pong on the weekends… Older guys are also in a better place financially. (If you find yourself dating a guy who’s still struggling at age 40 with his money, that’s a red flag, by the way…) Now, that last bullet point leads us right into the first tip: Dating a guy over 40 – Tip #1: Follow The Money… Watch how he treats you, and his money… It goes without saying that if you’re dating a man, you want a guy that treats you right. But you also want to choose a guy that has his financial $#!+ together. Look, let’s be realistic – if you’re a woman dating a man, you care how much he makes. Nothing says “unattractive” like a low-ambition guy who’s content to just scrape by on a minimum wage job. And frankly, if you’re still dating these guys, you need to level-up, honey. “What?? Carlos, are you saying it’s okay to be a gold-digger?” No, I’m not saying you should look for some sugar-daddy to support you for the rest of your life… HOWEVER, if you want a relationship with a real man, you need to choose a guy that’s earning his keep. You see, women are attracted to rich men for a very practical reason: His earnings generally show how ambitious a provider he is. Women are attracted to providers. And men are happy to provide for you. So don’t feel guilty that you’re turning into one of THOSE women. Looking at his earnings potential is just a way of seeing if you’re going to be stuck with Homer Simpson, or a guy who will lift you a bit higher up in life. Oh, and watch how he manages and handles that money, too. Is he stingy and tight? (This is bad…) Is he conservative and frugal? (This is good…) Is he frivolous and a show-off? (Again, bad…) That will give you insight into his character that you might not be able to see until years into a relationship, so pay attention. Courtship After 40 – Tip #2: Don’t T