Is it better to be liked or respected? HD

Take the FemmeType quiz for conscious women and learn what you can do today to feel more fulfilled while being ALL of you... http://yourfemmetyperevelation.com/ Oh la la! Today’s topic is a juicy one. And it can be uncomfortable…. Would you rather be LIKED or RESPECTED? Today, I share the ONE Guarantee you can benefit from when faced with the dilemma of being liked or respected. This “guarantee” will have you feel good when you make any decision to be liked or respected… This is NOT EASY! I encourage you to engage in a deeper level of meaningful discussion. Elegant Femme is here to support women in doing, being and having more meaningful and deeper levels of discussion. The Big Challenge: Over the years, I’ve realized there is particular challenge that we deal with as women; especially when growing businesses. This is especially relevant when we are allowing ourselves to have the level of impact and influence that we know we are here to have on this world. This message is for you if you are committed to... Growing into your true potential as a woman Allowing yourself to have the full level of impact and influence your soul is seeking to experience Living the fullness of all of your FemmeTypes and being in alignment with your Indie, Frenchie, and New Yorker What am I talking about? Being liked vs. respected. This might seem like a really obvious choice, but is it? Everybody wants to be liked, but there are some things we need to be careful of… Signs we need to be aware of: When the desire to be liked causes a shift in our behavior or our decision-making When we do something different, say something different, or act a different way than what we feel inside, for the fear that we won’t be liked Sometimes we go in a direction of wanting to be liked and instead find ourselves NOT really being respected. If you are committed to allowing yourself to continue to grow and go to the next level, you will find yourself in a position where people might not always like you! How Can I Have Both? There is no guarantee that you are going to be both liked and respected. But... there is another guarantee! Ask yourself the question, “How can I inside, know that I am respecting myself and that I am liking myself?” The only guarantee is if you make a decision inside where you know you are going to like yourself, and respect yourself. Our priority inside as women who are committed to growing into our full potential, has to shift away from, “Will they like me?” and move towards, “How can I allow myself to be respected?” “Let go of the possibility of everybody liking you when you step into the full potential of who you are.” I share this from deep within my heart because I have had this experience, and I encourage every single one of you to do it as well. If you have experienced this challenge, please leave a comment below. I would love to hear from you! Bisous, Tara I want to hear from you. Have you ever had to wrestle with